Your wedding theme will ultimately be an expression of your personality and tastes, and it’ll determine the overall atmosphere of your wedding. Are you seeking rustic charm for your countryside nuptials? Or maybe you envision a formal ballroom for a black-tie affair. It’s not always easy to pinpoint your wedding style, but one way to help narrow your decision is to figure out what aesthetic might best suit your personality. Don’t know how to exactly define your personality? The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator is a popular personality test used to indicate your preferences and behaviors.
Here’s what you need to know: The test asks you a series of multiple choice questions (about 100 questions that should take 10 to 12 minutes to answer) and uses your responses to generate your personality type. There are 16 personality types that describe your preferred way of doing things: directing and receiving energy, decision-making, informational intake and your behavior toward the outside world. The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator costs around $50, but 16 Personalities is a free version of the test that offers an in-depth analysis of your personality. So cool, right?
Take the 16 Personalities test here. Once you’ve gotten your results, find your Myers-Briggs personality below and let it guide you to your wedding theme. It’s the perfect way to start planning a wedding that speaks to you!
1. INTJ
Theme(s): Elopement, vintage
Location: Courthouse, restaurant or outdoor garden
You’re all about logic and reason, and while you can’t wait for your “I dos,” dramatic romance isn’t necessarily your thing. Stick to simple themes your wedding day like a breezy, destination elopement, a stylish courthouse ceremony followed by an intimate restaurant reception, or a sweet, vintage-style wedding. You’ll love the unstructured feel without having to deal with all the glitz and glam.
2. INTP
Theme(s): Romantic, intimate
Location: Garden
You’d rather not be the center of attention, even on your wedding day. A quaint garden wedding is perfect for your quiet nature. You’ll appreciate the originality of your relaxed theme while you’re surrounded by your nearest and dearest.
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3. ENTJ
Theme(s): DIY
Location: Backyard
There’s nothing you love more than a challenge. You’re bold, imaginative and super energetic when it comes to taking on difficult problems. A DIY wedding theme will put your best skills to the test, and you’ll have fun doing it.
4. ENTP
Theme(s): DIY, Alternative
Location: Renovated movie theater or converted warehouse
You’re as original as they come, so plan your alternative wedding to be as quirky, creative and unique as you are. Ditch the traditional white and opt for a colorful or patterned wedding dress, and carry a succulent bouquet instead of one with blooms. You’re also up for any kind of original project, so get your hands dirty to create your own paper goods, floral details, ceremony arch and other décor.
5. INFJ
Theme(s): Nautical, classic
Location: Beach or waterfront
You love connecting with others, and your actions are often motivated by others’ feelings. An intimate celebration by the sea will not only bring all your loved ones together in a stunning setting, but the beach always puts people in a good mood. Give your guests a picturesque view of the surf as you say your vows and play up the locale with classic and nautical details.
6. INFP
Theme(s): Bohemian, romantic, natural
Location: Woods, backyard or garden
You’re guided by your principles and values, and there’s no one more idealistic and passionate than you. Find harmony with a bohemian or garden-inspired wedding, You’ll dazzle in an airy gown and organic flower crown surrounded by lush florals and greenery that creates a laid-back, romantic feel.
7. ENFJ
Theme(s): Rustic, romantic
Location: Barn or chapel
You’re all about making other people feel good, and your friends and family love how loyal and empathetic you are. Your giving nature deserves a warm, romantic celebration with homespun touches and comfortable seating that put your guests first. Decorate with soft lighting (think: lots of candles), natural colors, and handmade wood details, and definitely serve your guests a delicious family-style, farm-to-table dinner.
8. ENFP
Theme(s): Southern, preppy
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Location: Country club, golf course or estate
Thanks to your upbeat and optimistic personality, you always find a reason to smile, and your wedding day should reflect your fun-loving and enthusiastic aura. Incorporate bright colors, flirty patterns and versatile fabrics for a preppy theme, or opt for a Southern style with soft florals, sweet refreshments and lots of bow ties.
9. ISTJ
Theme(s): Classic, DIY
Location: Ballroom, country club or private backyard
There’s nothing you love more than your traditions and values—they’re definitely your point of reference when it comes to making big decisions. Enjoy your wedding day with a classic theme. Your dress might have delicate lace details and a sweetheart neckline, and your wedding party will wear the prettiest pastels. Surround yourself with timeless décor, tons of roses, and a white and blush color palette.
10. ISFJ
Theme(s): Romantic
Location: Ballroom or church
Everything you do is from the heart. You care a lot about your loved ones, so it’s not surprising to learn that a romantic-themed wedding fits your personality to a T. You’ll want to celebrate your love in a big way with classically romantic colors, ethereal fabrics (we’re thinking neutrals and pinks) and decadent florals everywhere (garden roses are a must).
11. ESTJ
Theme(s): Classic, formal, black-tie
Location: Ballroom
You’re a stickler when it comes to tradition, and you like to get things done as efficiently as possible. A formal, classic wedding’s formal style is perfect for your systematic approach to projects and your need for organization. You’re sure to have designated task forces to handle even the smallest of details, so your champagne tower and radiant candles will look fabulous.
12. ESFJ
Theme(s): Modern
Location: Loft or open-air courtyard
Your friends and family come second to none in your life, and you’re unfailingly kind and generous. You’ll want an open, yet intimate space like a loft for your venue, so you can feel close to your loved ones without restricting your guest list. You’re fairly traditional and prefer an established order, but you’re also drawn to modern lines and minimalist details that still manage to emanate warmth through their simplicity. Play with sophisticated color combinations and a diverse range of patterns and textures. You’ll pull off a playful feel while showing off your thoughtfully selected details.
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13. ISTP
Theme(s): Alternative
Location: Historic museum, loft or renovated movie theater
You’re bold and never back down from a creative challenge. Your adventurous spirit craves a wedding style that’s eclectic and off the beaten path, complete with unique dessert options like a doughnut wall instead of a traditional wedding cake, personal details like incorporating your favorite comic book heros, or non-floral centerpieces inspired by your love of travel or favorite books.
14. ISFP
Theme(s): Destination
Location: Tropical island
Since you’re up for just about any kind of adventure or new experience, pack your bags and head to the tropics for a beachside destination wedding. You’ll love the simplicity of an intimate ceremony while enjoying the spontaneity and action-packed trip surrounding your nuptials.
15. ESTP
Theme(s): Destination, art deco, glamorous
Location: European villa, luxury estate or art gallery
You’re super passionate with a strong flair for drama and style. You’re spontaneous and action-seeking side fits an elegant destination wedding. Plan a European excursion filled with delicious wine, incredible scenery and historic architecture. If destination nuptials aren’t for you, seal the deal at an elegant art gallery or luxe estate to play up your glamorous vibe. For a mix of decadence and vintage-inspired nuptials, an art deco-themed bash will satisfy your love of both aesthetics.
16. ESFP
Theme(s): Glamorous, whimsical
Location: Botanical garden or luxury estate
The world is your stage, and you’re at home when you’re front and center. You love entertaining thanks to your outgoing and energetic personality, so your wedding will totally be the party of the year. Plan a glamorous affair with jaw-dropping details like a flower wall, chandeliers and metallic accents. Want something less over the top without losing the wow factor? Head outside for a whimsical fete with giant balloons, intricate and quirky patterns, live performers and something unexpected and impressive for dessert—like a towering croquembouche.
